macos: Update library bundling process, add vde to bundle (#3390)

Co-authored-by: cold-brewed <cold-brewed@users.noreply.github.com>

src/network/CMakeLists.txt

@@ -43,8 +43,13 @@ endif()
 if (UNIX)
     find_path(HAS_VDE "libvdeplug.h" PATHS ${VDE_INCLUDE_DIR} "/usr/include /usr/local/include" "/opt/homebrew/include" )
     if(HAS_VDE)
-        add_compile_definitions(HAS_VDE)
-        list(APPEND net_sources net_vde.c)
+        find_library(VDE_LIB vdeplug)
+        if (NOT VDE_LIB)
+            message(WARNING "Could not find VDE. The library will not be bundled and any related features will be disabled.")
+        else()
+            add_compile_definitions(HAS_VDE)
+            list(APPEND net_sources net_vde.c)
+        endif()
     endif()
 endif()